To get out, you have to go through it

Too often I see people running away for what presents itself. In terms of emotions, a lot has come up lately, and people are trying to run away by not taking responsibility themselves. One sticks to the emotions, and then goes into resistance. Resistance that keeps you stuck even more and lets you spin in a vicious circle. A story that takes place over and over again, a CD that is on replay. But you don’t realize that going through it and living through the emotions / feelings will help you through all processes much faster. And you can return to a state of joy much sooner. It is YOU that creates resistance by not engaging your feelings. By fleeing every time or by looking for distractions or answers from outside. I am only a wayshower that gives you the tools, but you have to do it yourself.

I can\’t say it often enough that we make the stories ourselves and play and repeat them… So we can also get ourselves out again. Don’t shy away from yourself, don’t shy away from your emotions, feel what feelings go through your body, without pushing them away. Positive, but also negative. Just accept that you also have bad sides that make you who you are. Bad and good is nothing else than a label that has been created, and we have come to believe that this is not good for us. Yes, everything is good for you! Everything complete makes you whole. If we all came to earth perfectly, then there is nothing to learn and develop? Go through the pain and sorrow, the frustration, the powerlessness, the inability, the depression, the anger and so on. We can really feel these feelings! We have to feel them to integrate them.

Have compassion for yourself!

That critical voice that always goes through your head, that you don\’t do this well and that you don\’t do that well. That little voice that says that you have to be somewhere to be whole. NO, accept yourself as you already are. You are UNIQUE! You are BEAUTIFUL! You are GORGEOUS! You are special! You are PERFECT in your IMPERFECTION!

Don\’t let that critical voice (ego) take the upper hand and start naming things that you do well more often. And if you don\’t do things right in your eyes, look at it … is this really true? Or is this an old belief? Is it because you used to be told that you didn\’t do this well or that you didn\’t do that well? By parents, friends, other people … society. Everything the outside world tells you doesn’t have to be your truth. Believe more in your own strength and what you really have in you. Have compassion for yourself and be better to yourself. Choose for yourself! You have come here alone and you are leaving alone, so become your own best friend. Nobody else does it for you, you have to live with yourself … day in and day out. This is only possible by learning to love yourself again and not constantly rejecting it. Look at what you have already endured as a person, how hard life can sometimes be. And you have endured everything, you are still here. See how powerful you are! See what kind of POWER you already have in you, but because you were so focused on that critical voice you haven’t seen that. But now you can put your blinders off, now you are awake, now you know it can be done differently. Now you know that you have everything under control.

Resistance hurts more  

It doesn\’t hurt to live through the emotions / feelings. But because you\’ve never done it and / or learned it, you don\’t know how to handle it. Well just feel it! Nothing more than that. If you’re angry, don’t push it away, but just get angry. If you feel powerlessness, sit in that feeling of powerlessness and feel what it does to you. Or are you depressed?…

I really know how difficult this one is because you’re only in resistance. But in depression, surrender is the key. To really give in to what you feel, because the resistance only makes it harder. You must do it, someone else cannot do it for you. Everyone must take responsibility for his or her own processes. You can get tools and ask for help, but in the end you’ll have to live through it, feel it and experience everything. The faster you come out again. Just like the lotus that has to go through the mud in order to bloom. You have to do it yourself, but you’re not alone. Certainly in this time when a lot of people are waking up and going through the same processes. The veil goes off, and people start to understand things more. Get a different perspective on life, and start making different choices. Energetically so much is happening that we’re collectively on a rapid pace, and this makes a shift in people\’s consciousness. Everyone triggers each other to come into higher consciousness, and everyone activates each other and will find his or her soul group more. People with whom you resonate and grow and help each other.

Old time vs New time

In the old time (3d) people still force each other to manipulate things to get their way. Trying to keep control over each other for their own happiness. Everything for their own personal agenda and their own happiness. New time (5d) we go to resonance. You follow what resonates with you and you let go of what doesn’t resonate with you. No longer required to stay in a relationship, or stay in a job or do something that no longer feels right. If it doesn’t resonate, you move on to something else. We are here as human beings to create and not to secure ourselves. Stuck in relationships that don\’t make us happy, maintaining jobs that energetically empty us and so on. We are here on earth to create and try things out, to learn. To go along with the flow of life and to let things go easily and without judgment when it no longer resonates. Not judging each other if we choose a different path, but seeing it as an opportunity for the other to grow and develop further and to encourage this. And who knows you might meet again in a different period, because you have just taken a different path … because your soul had to learn different things. Learn to play again on the energies of life, and what happens at every moment. Learn to live in the NOW, and enjoy the path you are on. Nothing more to fix, or to plan far in advance, but more to go along with the spontaneity of life. And to let everyone do this in his or her own freedom, as a result of which we flow through the universe as a flowing movement. As it’s meant to be. Just look at a group of birds flying in the air and flying through the air in synchronicity, without bumping into each other. They just trust, they go along with the flow of life, they don\’t fix themselves. We can all go here too. Trust life more and what life has to offer and go through life more spontaneously. Live with the moment, and feel what you need within each moment and what you desire. Let go of control, then everything will blossom itself.


Love D